Tuesday, November 21, 2006


Here is a picture of my 17 and 1/2 week baby gut. My jeans are about to kick the bucket. They are all good standing up but when I sit down - I can feel it! Ouch! Next doctor appointment is next Monday.

Anyhow, I just got back from parent teacher conference at Sammi's school. I was very surprised with what her teacher filled me in on. The first thing he said was she is blowing him away with her reading and that she is the best reader out of all of the kindergarten kiddos - including the other classes! I was shocked, but happy to hear this. I suddenly felt this motherly joy that some of my work was paying off! Sammi has never attended preschool or any other sort of kindergarten prep - just Mommy prep. I have been working hard with her and it has been worth the effort. We read every night out of the Book of Mormon and she reads out loud to us. I pick hard words and have Sam and Dan raise their hands everytime they hear the hard word - destruction being their favorite! Anyhow, it really helps. He said she is his best student, and I asked if he says that to all the parents. He told me he didn't and that Sammi was really his best student. Anyhow, to not go on too much about it (I do feel a sense of motherly proudness) I am very excited for her and proud of her work. I told her teacher I was not worried about her being the President of the United States or anything - my goal is that she is happy. He said she seems very happy at school. Meeting with her teacher was a little weird because he is only 1 year older than me. He is a good teacher though, lots of energy and the kids love that. Anyhow, that was my fun time at my very first parent teacher conference. Yea for Sammi girl!

5 comments:

  1. Tell Sammi that Grandma and Grandpa are really happy to hear such a great report. Keep up the good work. I bet when you get to Utah we could find a new fun book for you, Daniel too. Can't wait to see you all. By the way, Yea for all of Mari and Charles hard work.
    Love, Mom

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  2. thank you for setting an example to us as parents of Stephen. I'm glad you mentioned that you read the BOM to the kiddos. Ray and I have been doing that with Stephen. I started reading him the Children's Book of Mormon booklet last week. I love the pictures. It really helps me learn the stories too.

    Sammi, I'm glad you are reading so well. Give your mommy and daddy a hug for teaching you.

    Daniel,
    I still hope Stephen grows up to be a nice, caring and helpful boy like you. Ray even said a prayer before Stephen was born like: "please help Stephen to be like Daniel." We love you all!

    hugs and happiness, Kary

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  3. Maybe you can teach them a really fun word:
    floccinaucinihilipilification

    Love, Dad

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  4. Just a thought:

    I've learned over the years that it may be better to say that you are well pleased with your children than to say you are proud of them. There's a model for that...

    Love, Dad

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  5. "In terms of your happiness, in terms of the matters that make you proud or sad, nothing—I repeat, nothing—will have so profound an effect on you as the way your children turn out." -Gordon B. Hinckley-

    Today I told Sammi: "Sammi I am well pleased with you." Sammi said, "Mom, what does well pleased mean?" I said, "It means I am proud of you!" Sammi replied, "Oh! Thanks!"

    The use of the word "proud" can be very appropriately used. It is the feeling behind the use of the word that is important - regardless of how others may take it. I am proud of Sammi. I am well pleased with Sammi too - essentially they mean the same thing.

    There is nothing like a child hearing the sweet words of a parent..."Child, I am so proud of you for what you have done!" That is what they work for. I believe telling them provides confidence and encouragement and those are very important to them and their self-esteem.

    It is important for people to know that others are proud of them for what they have done. Children need to know it - so do adults. It is not so much the words, but the way the words are expressed that can make all the difference. It is ok to be proud of your children and even better to tell them. Do we not all want that? Especially to know that perhaps, Heavenly Father is proud of us?

    Words are powerful. How you express them makes all the difference!

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